My grandfather was named King Mar. This blog is about Lawrence and Wichita (KS), endurance sports, and my family and especially about a guy named King.
Sunday, July 19, 2020
Feb 1936 - E G Taggard - Jimmie with Topeka Cafe
Sunday, May 31, 2020
1936 - 2 letters written by King
1936
The new house my mamma build it cost about nine thousand dollars Chinese money.
Mar King
c/o Mo Do Drug Store, Baksha, Toysan
Friday, May 22, 2020
How Dad, Chin Wee, Got His Name
- Chin Hong was listed as the first son who also served in the U.S. Army with Chin Wee.
- Chin On was listed as the third son.
- Chin Jeng would have been the fourth son, but the paper was never used.
Friday, May 15, 2020
King Mar in "American Paper Son"
Reported earlier, Julian MarDock's family biography "The First of Many" made sense of all the letters coming our kin in Tyler,Texas. My copy of that books was signed by the author, Julian MarDock. Kim had sent me that book as a gift.
A second book is Wayne Wong's "American Paper Son." He and his Dad worked at the Pan American and King is mentioned in greater detail than in "The First of Many." I'm still trying to figure out if the King Mar Family is related to Wayne Wong's. Wayne's book initial draft needed considerable help and editing from Benson Tong, a Wichita State University professor, who added a lot of the historical facts and included the topic of racial discrimination which Wayne initially did not mention.
The first time I read "American Paper Son" several years ago, I skimmed over Wayne's family tree and just read his life story and noting anything connected with the King.
Before this E-blog and finally taking an interest in our family tree, my eyes glossed over whenever talking about names and family relationships. Part of that that reluctance was since childhood trying to understand the Chinese names and the Chinese way of identifying relatives and translating into English plus who was who when paper son names were used. Growing up Mom and Dad were hesitant to go into too much detail.
Kim and I both misplaced our first copies of the book. Then I had a need to verify details in the transcribed letters, so I got a new copy on-line. You can get used copies if you want; try Amazon.
My second reading last month, I charted out his family tree and figured out several Pan American Cafe connections. Still am working on what connections there might be with King's family.
Here's one connection. Wayne came to the U.S. as the paper son of Wong Wing Lock (who's real name was Mar Moy Jing). OK, I'll use the real name. Moy Jing's older brother's Chinese name was Mar Tung Jing. In America he became Henry Mar. Henry and our King Mar came to the U.S. in June/July 1914 and eventually worked in the Pan American business with other Chinese men. Henry and King were the only two spoke English and so they managed the cashier and public relations. Henry has been mentioned in several of the letters while King was in China in '36.
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| King Mar and Henry Mar, Dec 1946 |
Tuesday, May 05, 2020
Letters from Peggy Cannaday and "Egg Foo Young"
Here are two more letters to King. Now that I've laid some background information, I'll post more letters not in any chronological order, but based on topics.
Peggy Cannady, 1936
Wednesday:-
Dear King:-
Just a few lines to let you know we think of you each day and miss you a lot. The customers sure miss you and all ask about you. You had better hurry and come home.
I saw your picture & the picture of your home. Your new home is beautiful.
The girls are all here but Sammie. She is in Arkansas, don’t think she will come back to work.
Jean's husband is back and has a job in a mortuary. She seems very happy.
Thelma is in Trinidad, Colorado,
with her old boyfriend.
Business is good.
Mr. Brown “Egg Fo Young” was in last evening and ask when you would be back.
I will close as I don’t have much time.
Sincerely,
Hope you are well,
Peggy [Cannady]
R-H Brown (Egg Fo Young), Feb 8, 1936
U.S.A.
2/8/36
Dear King,
Your letter arrived yesterday & glad to hear from you & know you had a nice trip.
I sure do thank you for writing, for it is the first letter I ever received from China. I was in Wichita last week & it is not the same restaurant since you left. You have better hurry back & take care of things.
Weather here has been very cold – Even here in Okla City Okla the temperature went below 0° yesterday. It is warmer today. Well King, Bye for now & give my best regards to your people & tell them to let me hear from them soon when you are back here in U.S.A.
So a safe trip back to United States to you.
Sincerely
– your Friend
R-H
Brown
(Egg Fo Young)
608 N.W. 33rd
Oklahoma City
Monday, December 25, 2006
Christmas and music
Anyway, it brought back memories of Mom, Don my brother who loved to sing, my youth and a past now long ago.
It was nice to reminisce.






